Boats, Planes and Convertibles

   “What can you lose?” Smith said to me over dinner one night.  “He sounds nice. Accept his next date and have fun.  You don’t have to marry him.”
    Taking Smith's advice with a fun what-the-heck-can-I-lose? attitude I accepted his next date. It was truly amazing.  At 0-dark-early Boats picked me up and drove me in his antique Model A to the small local airport.  With only a purse and picnic lunch I had prepared in hand he flew us to another rural airport where we got in his cute convertible and drove 20 minutes to his boat!  My head was reeling.  Was this really happening to me?  Pinch myself!
    At the helm  Boats skillfully guided his 35’ power boat from its slip to the open waters of the Chesapeake Bay. Did I say it was a childhood playground for both of us?  The October air was warm, boat traffic scarce.  “Be careful.  Don’t lead him on.  Be clear that you’re looking for friendship and fun.  Sounds like you’re in his sights.” I thought.  
    I asked “Where are you headed?”  “Well, you said you’d like to go to Tangier Island for a day trip so that’s what we’re doing.” he replied.
    Conversation centered on his world built for two, his collection of antique cars he restored himself, numerous boats and planes used for his business and adventures on the water.  The scenery was watery and chanting was esy as I sat by him in the double wide captain’s chair built for two.
    Tangier’s harbor is quaint and colorful, lined with work boats, buoys and stacks of crab traps, tools of the many watermen who ply the waters pursuing those local crustaceans.  
    With his boat tied up at a dock, we strolled along the streets of Tangier, dodging golf carts, bicycles and the occasional truck, taking in the small community.   We talked about life as we grew up, our adult lives with spouses and life today as singles.   "You've been single too long" Boats said.  I didn't know what he meant and I did think about living alone so long I get set in my ways like concrete. 
    Our picnic lunch we consumed onboard after an ice cream stop on land and watched boats come and go.  The ride back to the marina was quick and easy. 
   The boat was putty under his control, docked flawlessly in its slip like it’d never left.    After a short ride to the airport (no security checks here), we were taking off again in his plane.  Destination Richmond  before sunset.   From the air we found many private grass airstrips, cultivated farm land and forests, traced rivers flowing to the Bay, discussed clouds and continued playing ‘Do you know…?’ 
    Boats landed his plane for two flawlessly, taxing to the hanger where we disembarked.  The ride to my house in his Model A was delightful.  He recounted driving it across country from Washington,DC to Seattle with his grandson a few years earlier in the Great Race.  He declined my offer to come in after he deposited me and the empty picnic basket in my home. 
    As I closed my front door, I was reflecting on my date with Boats, a most unique successful man with plenty of toys that ignite my sense of adventure.   As he drove away, I heard  “aahooga”, a fitting “Good night” from an old car in mint condition with a delightful outrageous man who likes to play behind the wheel.   Smith’s advice was spot on – have fun with the guy to have fun with.  

2 comments:

OldGal@oldgalproject.com said...

What a wonderful man after your experience with the Gentleman (?) Farmer. I, too, was found by GF on Match.com and have since found 30 other women who were his victims as well! At least it gives good material for a blog...

The Old Gal
www.oldgalproject.com

Anonymous said...

well, i don't think boat seemed over-eager at all, it sounds like it was a wonderful time. play it by ear, trust your instints, and if the shoe fits...have fun!